You’ll Never Be Truly Successful If……
……..You’re only in it for the money.
Yes it’s true folks, if you’ve just decided to start an online business with the sole purpose of making money then I can tell you right now…..IT’S DOOMED TO FAIL IN THE END!!
“What the hell are you talking about Eddy, surely we’re all in it to make money” you might be saying this after reading that comment and yes…of course we’re all here to make money but what I’m saying is that it shouldn’t JUST be about making money it should also be about providing value and contributing to society as well….let me explain.
I’ve just finished reading a fantastic little book called ‘The Go Giver’ which has had a really profound effect on me and confirmed a few things that I always new to be true.

The book is basically a modern day parable about an ambitious young man named Joe who is desperate to become successful and make lots of money. However, nothing he does seems to have any effect until he comes into contact with a high flying business consultant who teaches him that the secret of success is actually just to ‘give’.
The book goes on to explain how ‘giving’ and putting others interests above one’s own and adding value to their lives leads to unexpected returns.
After reading the book I was filled with excitement because it makes perfect sense and confirms what I’ve always known to be true.
Now, don’t get me wrong…..I’m not talking about karma or spirituality here and this book is not in the same vein as ‘The Secret’ ….to be honest I really cannot abide that kind of wishy washy New Age rubbish, No, this book makes perfect logical sense and I’ll give you an example straight from the book which explains why.
Most of us are brought up to believe that it is better to give than to receive right? but that is nonsense, receiving is the natural result of giving and you only have to look at Mother Nature to see examples of this happening every day.
All over the world right at this moment, all of humanity is breathing out carbon dioxide and breathing in oxygen, and also at the very same time this is happening millions of organisms in the plant kingdom are doing the exact opposite and breathing OUT oxygen…..they’re giving is our receiving and our giving is their receiving.
So if you take this example and apply it to business, this is what everyone should be aiming to do, give something valuable that enhances someones life and contributes to society in some way, no matter how small.
As I said earlier, I’ve always known this to be true, in a way it’s one of the things that has prevented me from just ‘cashing in’ and making a fast buck from Internet marketing because I’ll be honest with you right now….I could easily have done this.
I work in the IM business and have connections and access to people with huge mailing lists so I could have easily cobbled together some kind of product, approached the right people and asked them to do a mail out to their list of subscribers for me and I would have made some quick money.
However, this is wrong on so many levels.
I’ve been interested in making money and online ventures for many years now and I always had ambitions of creating my own product to sell to other people in the making money niche but I could never do this because basically I couldn’t justify selling something that I didn’t have any success with myself.
This is the problem with so many marketers these days, they don’t use the systems they are selling themselves. They are just selling theories and ideas at best and at worst they are just outright scammers and liars.
I’m so proud to be able to say that I am honestly using the very same system in my everyday life that I am selling to other people.
My Guru Buddy System is a proven method of earning a realistic income and I actually use it myself…..how many marketers and so called gurus can honestly claim that?
So, in this spirit of giving I have an announcement to make….The next IM product I make I am going to give away completely for free.
I have an idea for a small ebook that I think the IM market really needs, and newbies in particular need to have this information. I’m not going to give away too much right now and to be honest I haven’t even started writing the book yet but I’ll keep you all updated on this blog.
Until then I urge you all to go and grab a copy of the ‘Go Giver’ read it and take action.
Talk soon.
Eddy





June 24th, 2010 at 10:16 am
What a very appropriate post ! Something at 44 I am coming to the conclusion that that is the way forward , once you start giving the opportunities benefits , and things you never knew existed start to happen and materialise ! I have been taken in by the many guru systems out there , and desperately wanted to sell products as it was easy! Yeah right .. easy to lose money ..lol.And when you did get a product to sell like you I could not sell it as I had not proven you could make money!
I got your gurubuddysystem on my radar through Jon Streets review and with my work falling off rapidly maybe with all the technical stuff I learnt and knowing my way round a website , blog etc then this might be your giving , my receiving , then my giving again ! Have just enough money now at end of month to have another look at your buddy system and see what I think again ..A great post , will get the book , and will keep you posted ..Thanks ..
June 24th, 2010 at 10:51 am
Hia Eddy,
I’ve said it before and I’ll bloomin’ well say it again, you are THE proverbial breath of fresh air this business so badly needs! I agree with everything you say on your blogpost, if everyone was to give a little more and be a little less “grabby”, the world would be a much sweeter place.
If even a tiny percentage of those people who get to make serious money online, would just think about how it was for them when they were new and struggling, instead of just endlessly serenading us with their “stories” and not meaning a word of it, and reach into their very deep pockets to give something meaningful back, Internet Marketing as we know it would become a really positive place wouldn’t it? After all, they can easily afford to be generous and I’m a firm believer in what goes round comes round, so they would end up benefitting in the long run anyway!
I would love to read the book, but my stupid computer wouldn’t let me download it, could you send me a link please?
You are a lovely lad, keep up the good work! x
June 24th, 2010 at 11:20 am
I think everone should read this blog in it’s entirety as it has something to be learn’t & learnt well.
June 24th, 2010 at 2:53 pm
Hello Helen.
Nice to hear from you again.
You can get the book from Amazon for around £5.
Thanks for your kind comments.
June 28th, 2010 at 4:24 am
Hello Eddie,
I just purchased your GuruBuddy product tonight. I emailed you a few weeks ago and “you” responded. Awesome. I start reading through the material tomorrow as its 11:24PM my time.
To your success….
Richard
June 28th, 2010 at 11:25 am
Hello Richard
Hope you like the course and yep…I answer ALL my emails personally so if you need any help or just fancy a chat give me a buzz
June 28th, 2010 at 11:27 am
Hello Michael
Thanks for your kind comments, they mean a lot to me.
Eddy
August 10th, 2010 at 1:41 pm
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August 15th, 2010 at 6:04 pm
Oh Eddy, I love your website, I am so pleased that someone as good and kind and clever as you, has done this because I have been running round in circles on the net.
You are just what we need! Every thing you have written is so TRUE. You are a Breath of fresh air you will be a legend on the Internet, I am sure!
I first got to know you when I told you my problem with an uncaring Guru who I had bought off and had my sites hosted with. He Didn’t bother much with after sales and I couldn’t get my Blog sites released, I thought I would lose them. But you came to my rescue and helped me get them free.I must have drove you mad! But You were always so kind and concerned. I thank you again.
I have read all through your site it’s so Good, I am going to buy the Guru Buddy it will be great for me. You know Eddy your sincerity & honesty shines through.
You do realise you are probably going to get so many people like me when they find out how Great you are.
Do you think you can stand that?
Sincere Kind Wishes Good Luck Montana
August 16th, 2010 at 12:17 pm
Hello Joan
Nice to hear from you again.
Thank you so much for your lovely comments…I’m actually blushing reding them
Really glad you like my blog and I hope it helps you in some way however small.
It’s getting comments like yours that really makes my job a pleasure.
Can I stand anymore like you?…..yeah course, bring em on
May 14th, 2011 at 4:01 pm
Eddy,
I recently purchased The Go-Giver and the follow up book, Go-Givers Sell More.
Both of these books are excellent.
Andrew
May 18th, 2011 at 1:29 am
Hi Andrew
Yes I also have the Go Givers Sell More book – haven’t got around to reading it yet though.
Is it good?
Eddy